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Need Some Relationship Help?
Advice from a Life Coach When Your
Soul Mate is Afraid to get Married

Life Coach | Soul Mate | Long Term Relationship | Relationship HelpIf you're wanting to take your long term relationship to the next level, but your Soul Mate is dragging his or her feet, it might be time to get some relationship help from a Life Coach. Deciding if your relationship just needs work, or if marriage is simply never going to happen, are tough issues you must address.

Signs that Your Soul Mate Won't Ever Tie the Knot

While there's no cut-and-dry formula for figuring out whether your long term relationship is definitely not headed towards marriage, or if it just needs some relationship help, experts point to some telltale signs that your Soul Mate might not be in it for the long haul:

1. You aren't included in their "vision" of the future: If your partner discusses their plans for the future - hopes, dreams, living situation, career goals and so on - and they don't mention you in that vision, be concerned.

2. You aren't consulted on big decisions: If your Soul Mate is making decisions about money investments, furniture, future housing, cars, and other major choices without including you, this could be a red flag.

3. Your partner avoids serious conversations: Does your significant other shy away from subjects like religious beliefs, politics, children, or other hot topics like these? If your Soul Mate keeps changing the topics of your conversations, it might be time for relationship help.

4. The "We'll get married after I…" excuse: While there's nothing wrong with getting your ducks in a row before transitioning from a long term relationship to marriage, in reality, no one's ducks are ever perfectly lined up. If your partner keeps putting off marriage until they get a better salary, buy a house, lose weight, or - [insert just about any excuse here] - your Soul Mate might be having doubts - so pay a lot of attention to this too!

Does No Ring = No Long Term Relationship?

If it is apparent that your partner is having some problems taking the plunge, it may be time to reevaluate your situation. If marriage is important to you, this might not be your "Soul Mate" after all.

It will do you no good sitting around waiting for your beloved to "see the light" if their heart just isn't in it. It's time to do some soul searching to figure out if "Not Getting Married" is a deal breaker for you. You have two options here: either get some relationship help, or go your separate ways. You may need support walking down either of those two paths. This is where a trained professional can be of service.

Get Relationship Help from a Life Coach

When facing these relationship issues, it is often beneficial to get relationship help from a Life Coach or counselor. After all, marriage or a long term relationship is a huge and complicated part of life and sometimes we need a little assistance navigating our way.

A Life Coach can work with you and your Soul Mate to figure out what roadblocks you are having when it comes to marriage. Are they emotional issues? Do they stem from past problems? Are there intimacy issues holding either of you back? A Professional Life Coach will get to the root of the situation and work with you both to build a stronger relationship.

If you decide that the best thing to do is leave your partner, a Life Coach can guide you through that pain and help you heal. A Life Coach can also work with you to help you get emotionally healthy again - and help you get ready for a relationship that's more rewarding!

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