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Save your Relationship from Emotional Infidelity
How a Personal Coach Can Help You

Emotional Infidelity | Personal CoachAre you a victim of Emotional Infidelity?
To find out if you need help from a personal coach, check out the signs and symptoms of emotional infidelity below.

Signs of Emotional Infidelity

1. Withdrawing from a spouse

2. Thinking excessively, fantasizing or daydreaming about another

3. Loss of interest in sex

4. Sharing thoughts and feelings with another outside the marriage

5. Less desire to spend time with your spouse

6. Making reasons to see or be with a friend rather than a partner

There is no question about it. Relationships are difficult. Most couples reach a certain level of comfort with one another that may somehow - blissfully and unintentionally - leave the door to emotional infidelity wide open. We may not even be aware of any problems in the relationship; complacency itself can set the stage for emotional infidelity.

Compounding the issue, many people feel that since sex is not involved, having an intimate conversation with someone outside of the marriage is morally acceptable too. For most of us, we don't even realize that we are in the midst of trouble until it's far too late.

While there may be no clear reasons to cast stones or ascertain guilt, the help of a trained Personal Coach can melt away the icy silence that can sneak up on couples who've been together for years and who no longer share their inner feelings.

What is Emotional Intimacy?

Emotional infidelity can be described as a deliberate or lasting desire to seek the emotional intimacy - usually provide by marriage - outside of the relationship. It may be that one partner feels disconnected or unappreciated and begins to discuss or befriend another person with whom he or she feels understood. What normally happens is that a friendship and attraction builds and this person gradually takes the place of one's spouse.

Sometimes emotional infidelity happens accidentally. A Personal Coach can mediate and open up the lines of communication. A personal coach may be especially helpful because he or she can help us look beyond the issues couples argue about. This can lead to the unveiling of the truth ... the real reasons we feel disconnected ... and why emotional infidelity occurs at all. Take heart! Much of the time we may not even realize we are doing it.

A Personal Coach can Help You Reconnect and
Avoid Emotional Infidelity through Coaching

When either spouse begins to look outside of their relationship for what should be offered inside, the best idea is to seek the guidance of a personal coach before emotional infidelity leads to a sexual encounter. Oftentimes, with the help of a professional coach, couples can quickly and easily reconnect and begin to once again experience the emotional intimacy that is so important to a happy marriage. A personal coach can remind us that it's okay to want to feel needed, loved and cared for without it being a sign of insecurity. It's also easier for couples to recover from emotional infidelity than it is from the sexual act of cheating. The key is finding the help that you and your relationship need before things fall apart.

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